For the one who knows and still does it

Stop starting over. Start building.

Two books and a workbook for the part after insight: changing the pattern, one boring repetition at a time.

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Bought separately: ~~$99.97~~. You save $50.97. (The workbook is a $59.99 value and only comes in bundles.)

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Insight is lovely. Change is better.

You can explain your attachment style, your triggers and your stress response in detail. You’ve had the breakthroughs. And on Tuesday morning you still do the old thing.

That gap between knowing and doing is where most self-help leaves you, and where you’ve been stuck.

What you get

Books V and VIII + the Workbook

Book V

Transformation in Practice

How patterns change at any age, and how to replace a habit instead of fighting it.

$19.99 on its own

Book VIII

Living with Purpose

Your attention back, days built around what you want, and habits that last.

$19.99 on its own

Workbook

Workbook for Transformation

A printable companion for doing the work on paper.

$59.99 value · only in bundles

Why these three

Insight gets you to the door and repetition gets you through it. One book shows how brains rewire, one helps you build days that keep you there, and the workbook gives the work somewhere to live.

Sound familiar?

The smart kids who lied

You were the smart one. So now, in a meeting, when you don’t understand something, you nod. You look it up under the table later. Asking would mean admitting you’re lost, and being lost was never part of the deal.

In the late 1990s Claudia Mueller and Carol Dweck gave fifth graders a set of puzzles and praised them in one of two ways. Some heard that they must be smart. Others heard that they must have worked hard. Then came a much harder set. The children praised for being smart enjoyed it less, did worse afterward and, when asked to report their scores to other children, were far more likely to lie about them.

One sentence of praise taught them that struggling meant they weren’t who everyone thought they were. A lot of grown women are still living by that sentence.

Rewire Your Brain is for the smart one who’s tired of pretending she has it figured out: the science of how change sticks, and a workbook to do it on paper.

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A few months from now

Tuesday morning, forty times in

It’s Tuesday morning and you do the new thing instead of the old one. Not perfectly, and not because you suddenly found willpower. You’ve done it forty times now, and the path is worn in.

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This bundle is for you if

You’ve done the reading and want the doing.
You like a plan you can follow.
You think best with a pen in your hand.
You’re tired of starting over on Mondays.

Start tonight

Rewire Your Brain

$49 ~~$99.97~~

Book V: Transformation in Practice
Book VIII: Living with Purpose
Workbook for Transformation (printable)
PDF, ready the moment you pay

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365-day money-back promise. Read it for a year. If it didn’t help, you get every cent back. No questions asked.

Not sure where to start?

Find out where you are first. It’s $7.

From Survival to Feeling Safe maps the way out of survival mode in four stages, with the signs for each. Find your stage first, and you’ll know which book you need next, if you need one at all.

Get the map · $7 Not ready? Read a chapter free

Want all eight books? The complete set is $127, with the workbook and the $7 guide included.

You can’t lose here

Read it for a whole year.

Change takes longer than a refund window usually allows, so ours is a year long. If at any point in the next 365 days you decide it didn’t help, email us at [email protected] and we’ll refund you in full. You don’t have to explain.

We’d rather you take a year to decide than not start at all.

Still wondering?

Can I buy the books one at a time instead?

Books V and VIII are sold on their own as well. The workbook only comes in this bundle and the complete set.

What exactly do I get?

A PDF you can download the moment you pay. Read it on your phone, tablet, laptop or e-reader, or print it at home. Bundles and the complete set include every book in them.

When does it arrive?

Immediately. Payhip shows you the download link on screen and emails it to you as well.

Do I have to read the books in order?

No. Each book works on its own, so start wherever it hurts most.

What if it doesn’t help?

You get your money back. You have 365 days: email us at [email protected] and we’ll refund you in full. No questions asked.

Is this only for women?

No. A nervous system is a nervous system. The examples lean toward the women we hear from most, and Book VI ends with a chapter on women’s hormonal health, but the rest applies to anyone with a body and a past.

Is this therapy?

No. It explains what’s going on inside you, so that everything else you try, therapy included, has something solid to stand on. If you’re in therapy already, bring it to your next session. If you’re struggling badly, please talk to a professional too.

These books are education, written to help you understand yourself. They don’t replace a doctor, therapist or crisis line. If you’re in danger or thinking about harming yourself, please contact your local emergency number or a crisis line right now.